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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 6: Tube feeding and related decisions

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 6, the concluding part, discusses tube feeding and related decisions and their consequences. …

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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 5: Eating/ swallowing problems

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 5 discusses a very common area of concern: when someone with dementia starts having eating/ swallowing problems. …

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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 4: Constipation, Catheter use, Dental Care, Improving the Quality of Life

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 4 discusses some more specific care topics – constipation, use of catheters, dental care, and improving the person’s quality of life. …

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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 3: Bruising, skin care, exercise, massage, bedsores

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 3 discusses some specific care topics – bruising, skin care and circulation, exercise, massage, and bedsores. …

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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 2: Getting medical advice and preparing for decline

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 2 discusses how to get medical attention, stay in touch with doctors, and cope with the deteriorating medical status and related decisions. …

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Home care for late stage dementia, Part 1: Prepare for home care

Home care for persons in late-stage dementia is very challenging. In a series of interviews, Dr.Soumya Hegde, Bangalore-based Consultant Geriatric Psychiatrist, discusses various aspects of home care for advanced dementia, and provides useful information and several practical suggestions. Part 1 discusses how to organize the home and prepare for smoother care for someone with advanced dementia. …

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Late-stage care, heartbreaks and tender moments, hospitals, dilemmas, decisions: a daughter narrates

Vijaya is a Mumbai-based qualified accountant, who set aside her career for some years to care for her father, a dementia patient. In this interview, Vijaya describes the final months of her father’s life, and the heart-break and decisions and dilemmas involved. [note]

Please tell us about your father’s medical problems in the last year of his life, and the overall care arrangements you and your sister used to support him.

My father passed away in June 2011 at the age of 80. He had developed dementia caused by Binswanger’s disease and multi infarct (vascular dementias) for over 12 years, and he also suffered from other medical conditions like hypertension, age related arthritic conditions, and later UTI and heart arrhythmia. My mother, and later my sister and I took care of him over the years.

My father was not ‘bedridden’ for most of what turned out to be his last year of life. Had we allowed him to, he would have loved to stay in bed. He was very weak physically but was awake for many hours during the day, and also in the night. Sometimes he would not sleep at all for a couple of days and later compensate by sleeping all the time and then he had to be woken up for bath time, mealtimes, etc. (sometimes he would even fall asleep during his bath 🙂 ).

I had suspended my career and returned to India so that I could stay at home all day. I took care of the housework and the daytime activities of caregiving. Usually my sister would spend time in the evening with him after she returned from work; she would feed him dinner, give him his medicines, and put him to bed.

Usually when he was awake, my sister and I would walk him around the house 2-3 times a day. He used a walker, and we had to physically support and assist him as he walked. During the day, we would seat him near windows. From one window he had a view of a road and from another, he could see a garden. Also, for some hours, especially at mealtimes, we seated him in front of the TV because he usually liked watching cartoons.

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When I see Ma struggle, I get very disturbed: a daughter-in-law describes the caregiving for a bedridden mother-in-law

Neena (name changed), a chartered accountant who left her professional work to look after her mother-in-law, describes the challenges and heartbreak of home care of a bedridden patient with multiple medical problems. An earlier interview of the care (when the mother-in-law was not bedridden) is available here: Caregiving challenges, trained ayahs, depression: a caregiver’s story.

Please describe the circumstances that led to your mother-in-law becoming bedridden.

Ma is now 86 and suffers from multiple medical conditions, including heart problems, osteoporosis, Parkinson’s Disease, and dementia.

Getting her (Ma) to move at this point was very difficult. At other times she would just start collapsing onto the ground! She had to be carried to her bed at times

Over the last few years, she had become increasingly dependent on the hired help for walking, and also grown very scared of falls. When she was taken for walks or to the bathroom, she often got confused about how to lift her legs to walk, and her legs would get sort of locked, and she had to be repeatedly prompted about which leg to lift, about moving the leg forward and so on. When our regular help went on leave and we had a substitute helping Ma, this substitute did not know how to handle Ma at such times, how to coax her to walk and so on, and others had to help. Multiple instructions often confused her even more and she would completely stop movement and her body would become stiff. Getting her to move at this point was very difficult. At other times she would just start collapsing onto the ground! She had to be carried to her bed at times and this was a huge task as Ma had become heavier with absolutely minimal exercise!!

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Late-stage dementia care

The dementia patient becomes fully dependent for all activities. The patient may be bedridden, and may even stop talking.

What caregivers can do: Set up the home for late-stage dementia care. Learn home nursing and other necessary skills. Use support systems. Stay in touch with doctors. Coordinate with the family for major decisions.

Almost all late-stage care in India is done at home by the family. This final stage may be short or may go on for years; the patient keeps getting worse and will finally die. Caregiving for patients at this stage is very different from caring for early or mid stage patients.

  • Set up the home for care.
  • Set up support systems.
  • Learn home nursing.
  • Understand the patient.
  • Remain alert on problems related to long stay in bed.
  • Remain alert on other medical problems of the patient.
  • Learn about end-of-life care decisions and consult with family.
  • Stay connected with the patient.
  • Handle grief.
  • Resource: Video from a caregiver from India sharing her experience.
  • Resource: Instructive videos and resources on home nursing.
  • See also….

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Plan care for various stages of dementia

The patient’s abilities keep reducing as dementia gets worse. Care has to be continually adjusted accordingly.

What caregivers can do: Understand the stages of dementia and how they will impact the help the patient needs. Plan for the changes in the patient’s ability and the support required. Consider suitable home adjustments. Learn the required caregiving skills. The caregiving workload will increase over time, so consider available support systems. Make required adjustments in other responsibilities.

  • Care approaches as dementia progresses.
  • Care for early stage dementia.
  • Care for mid stage dementia.
  • Care for late stage dementia.
  • Special care aspects for young onset/ early onset dementia.
  • Care for the caregiver (self-care).
  • See also….

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